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    ADDICTION & CODEPENDENCY

    Any AA, Al-anon, or Alateen publications or groups

    Beyond Codependency by Beattie

    Codependent No More by Beattie

    Courage to Be Me…Living with Alcoholism (for teens) from Al-Anon

    Facing Co-dependence by Mellody & Miller

    Facing Love Addiction by Mellody

    Getting Them Sober by Drews

    Kicking Addictive Habits Once and for All by Daley

    Killing the Bear: Surviving Teen Addiction by Tennison

    The Language of Letting Go by Beattie

    Stop Smoking Naturally by Keats

    Talk, Trust, and Feel…Keeping Codependency Out of Your Life by Beattie

    Teens Under the Influence…The Truth about Kids, Alcohol, and Other Drugs—How to

    Recognize the Problem and What to Do about It by Ketcham & Pace

    ANGER MANAGEMENT

    Angry All the Time… An Emergency Guide to Anger Control by Potter-Efron

    From Anger to Forgiveness by Larsen & Hagarty

    Change Your Mind, Change Your Life…Replace Tension, Anger, Illness and Fear with

    Inner Peace, Well-being, and Confidence by Jampolsky

    Letting Go of Anger—The Eleven Most Common Anger Styles and What to Do about

    Them by Potter-Efron

    ANXIETY

    The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook (CBT) by Bourne

    Badass Ways to End Anxiety & Stop Panic Attacks—A Counter-intuitive Approach to

    Recover and Regain by Verschaeve

    DARE—The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks by McDonagh

    DARE Workbook by McDonagh

    Don’t Feed The Monkey Mind—How to Stop the Cycle of Anxiety, Fear & and Worry

    by Shannon

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Men by Carlson

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff—Simple Ways to Keep Your Cool in Stressful Times by

    Carlson

    The Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff Workbook…Exercises, Questions, and Self-Tests to

    Help You Keep the Little Things From Taking Over Your Life by Carlson

    Everyday Mindfulness for OCD: Tips, Trick, and Skills for Living Joyfully by

    Hershfield

    Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Jeffers

    How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Carnegie

    Is Fred in the Refrigerator?: Taming OCD and Reclaiming My Life by Nicely

    The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Anxiety (ACT) by Eifert & Forsyth

    The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Social Anxiety and Shyness (ACT) by

    Flemming & Kocovski

    Relief from Sleep Disorders by Becker

    The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook (CBT) by Antony & Swinson

    The Worry Control Workbook by Copeland

    ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER

    All about Attention Deficit Disorder (book/video) by Phelan

    Change Your Brain, Change Your Life by Amen

    Driven to Distraction (child/adult ADD) by Hallowell & Ratey

    Is It You, Me, or Adult ADD? Stopping the Roller Coaster When Someone you Love Has Attention Deficit Disorder by Pera

    You Mean I’m Not Lazy, Stupid, or Crazy (adult ADD) by Kelly & Ramundo

    CAREER & WORK ISSUES

    Do What You Are by Tieger & Barron-Tieger

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff at Work by Carlson

    How to Enjoy your Life and Your Job by Carnegie

    How to Say It at Work—Putting Yourself Across with Power Words, Phrases, Body

    Language and Communication Secrets by Griffin

    The Pathfinder—How to Choose or Change Your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction

    and Success by Lore

    Save Your Job—The 30-Minute Guide to Job Security by Timm

    CARETAKING AGING PARENTS & CHALLENGING ADULT CHILDREN

    Coping with Your Difficult Older Parent—a Guide for Stressed-Out Children by Lebow

    &Kane

    state Planning Is Dead! –Asset Protection Planning Is Alive and Well by Scott

    How to Care for Aging Parents—a One-Stop Resource for All Your Medical, Financial,

    Housing, and Emotional Issues by Morris

    Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children—6 Steps to Hope and Healing for

    Struggling Parents by Bottke

    CHILDREN & TEEN BOOKS

    6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenager by Windell

    The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Covey

    The Bipolar Workbook for Teens—DBT Skills to Help You Control Mood Swings by

    Dijk & Guindon

    Bullies Are a Pain in the Brain (children’s book) by Romain

    Courage to Be Me (for teens; alcoholism with family or friends) from Al-Anon

    Don’t Let Your Emotions Run Your Life for Teens—Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills

    for Helping you Manage Mood Swings, Control Angry Outbursts, and Get Along with

    Others by Dijk

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Teenagers—Simple Ways to Keep you Cool in Stressful

    Times by Carlson

    Finding Your Way… A Book about Sexual Ethics (book for teens & young adults) by

    Terkel

    How Kids Make Friends—Secrets for Making Lots of Friends, No Matter How Shy You

    Are (for children) by Michelle

    Let’s Be Friends—A Workbook to Help Kids Learn Social Skills & Make Great Friends

    by Shapiro & Holmes

    Social Success Workbook for Teens—Skill-building Activities for Teens with Nonverbal

    Learning Disorder, Asperger’s Disorder & Other Social-skill Problem s by Cooper

    Study Strategies Made Easy by Davis & Sirotowitz

    Teen Yoga… A Complete Yoga Program for Teen Health, Strength, and (DVD)

    CHRONIC ILLNESS & PAIN

    The Anatomy of Hope—How People Prevail in the Face of Illness by Groopman

    A Simple Guide to the Paleo Autoimmune Protocol (diet plan) by Laird

    Change Your Mind, Change Your Life…Replace Tension, Anger, Illness and Fear with

    Inner Peace, Well-being, and Confidence by Jampolsky

    The End of Diabetes: The Eat to Live Plan to Prevent and Reverse Diabetes by Fuhrman

    Fibroymyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain: A Survival Manual by Copeland

    Less Pain, Fewer Pills—the Dangers of Prescription Opiods and Gain Control over

    Chronic Pain by Darnall

    Your Personal Paleo Code—The 3-step Plan to Lose Weight, Reverse Disease, and Stay

    Fit and Healthy for Life by Kresser

    The Tapping Solution for Pain Relief—a Step-by-Step Guide to Reducing and

    Eliminating Chronic Pain by Robins

    Guided Mindfulness Meditation Series I: A Complete Guided Mindfulness meditation

    Program (audio CD) by Jon Kabat-Zinn

    You Are Not Your Pain (an 8-week program) by Burch and Penman

    You Are Not Your Illness by Topf & Bennett

    COMMUNICATION, ASSERTIVENESS, BOUNDARIES, & SOCIAL SKILLS

    Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, To take Control of Your Life by

    Townsend

    Boundaries with Teens—When to Say Yes, How to Say No by Townsend

    The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Assertiveness by Davidson

    Emotional Intelligence by Goleman

    How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends by Gabor

    How to Win Friends and Influence People by Carnegie

    Messages—the Communication Skills Book by McKay, Davis, & Flanning

    People Power—How to Succeed by Tapping the Power of People around Us! By Noe

    Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children—6 Steps to Hope and Healing for

    Struggling Parents by Bottke

    The Social Skills Guidebook—Manage your Shyness, Improve Your Conversations, and

    Make Friends, without Giving Up Who You Are by Macleod

    When I Say No, I feel Guilty—How to Cope Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive

    Therapy by Smith

    Where You End and I Begin by Katherine

    DEPRESSION & BIPOLAR CHALLENGES

    Battlefield of the Mind (christian-based) by Meyer

    The Bipolar Disorder Survival Guide…What You and Your Family Need to Know by

    Miklowitz

    The Bipolar Disorder Workbook—Powerful Tools and Practical Resources for Bipolar II

    and Cyclothymia by Forster

    Call Me Anna (bipolar disorder) by Patty Duke

    Change Your Mind, Change Your Life…Replace Tension, Anger, Illness, and Fear with

    Inner Peace, Well-being, and Confidence by Jampolsky and Cirincione

    Change Your Words, Change Your Life: Understanding the Power of Every Word You

    Speak (christian-based) by Meyer

    The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Book for Bipolar Disorder: Using DBT to

    Regain Control of Your Emotions and Your Life by Dijk & Segal

    The Feeling Good Handbook—Using the New Mood Therapy in Everyday Life (CBT)

    by Burns

    Getting Past Your Past—Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from

    EMDR Therapy by Shapiro

    Living Beyond Your Feelings: Controlling Emotions So They Don’t Control You

    (christian-based) by Meyers

    Living with Depression and Manic Depression by Copeland

    The Depression Workbook: A Guide For Living with Depression and Manic Depression

    by Copeland

    Hack Your Depression by Thomas

    The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Depression (ACT) by Robinson

    Talking to Yourself—How Cognitive Behavior Therapy Can Change Your Life by Butler

    DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE

    Avoidant…How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner by Kinnison

    Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists by SQ

    Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships by Carnes

    Controlling People…How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to

    Control You by Evans

    Coping with Your Difficult Older Parent—A Guide for Stressed-Out Children by Lebow

    and Kane

    The Emotionally Abusive Relationship by Engel

    Emotional Blackmail—When people in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to

    Manipulate you by Forward

    Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband? ByMadden

    The Gift of Fear…and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence by Becker

    Life Code: The New Rules for Winning in the Real World by McGrawen (Dr. Phil)

    Men who Hate Women and the Women who Love Them by Forward

    Mothers Who Can’t Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters by Forward

    Nasty People—How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to their Level by

    Carter

    Obsessive Lover—When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go by Forward

    Stop Walking on Eggshells—Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About

    Has Borderline Personality by Mason

    Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust ,

    Boundaries, and Self-Esteem by Roth

    oxic Inlaws—Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage by Forward

    Toxic Parents—Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Forward

    The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Evans

    When Your Lover Is a Liar by Forward

    Women who Love Too Much—When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He’ll Change by

    Norwood

    When Men Batter Women: New Insights into Ending Abusive Relationships by

    Gottman and Jacobson

    The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family by Payso

    DIVORCE, BREAK-UP & CO-PARENTING

    101 Ways to Be a Long-distance Super Dad—or Mom, Too by Newman

    Child Custody with a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex by Ross &

    Corcoran

    Collaborative Divorce… The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family

    Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with Your Life by Tesler & Thompson

    The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Surviving Divorce by Weintraub, Hillman, and

    Kesselman

    Conscious Uncoupling—5 Steps to Living Happily Even After by Thomas

    The Co-parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict After a Difficult Divorce by

    Thayer & Zimmerman

    Custody Chaos, Personal Peace—Sharing Custody with an Ex Who Drives You Crazy

    by Wittmann

    The Good Divorce… Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart

    by Ahrons

    Helping Children Cope with Divorce by Teyber

    Mom’s House, Dad’s House—Making Shared Custody Work by Ricci

    Parenting after Divorce—A Guide to Resolving Conflicts and Meeting Your

    Children’s Needs by Stahl

    Parents Are Forever—A Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming Successful Co-parents after

    Divorce by Thomas

    Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends by Fisher & Alberti

    Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder—The 6 Stages of Healing by Ortman

    FAMILIES & ADULT CHILDREN CHALLENGES

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff with Your Family: Simple Ways to Keep Daily

    Responsibilities and Household Chaos from Taking over Your Life by Carlson

    Don’t Talk, Don’t Trust, Don’t Feel…Overcoming the Power of Your Dysfunctional

    Family’s Secrets by Becker

    How to Talk to Your Adult Children about Really Important Things by DiGeronimo

    Making Peace with Your Parents by Bloomfield & Felder

    Our Family Meeting Book by Hightower & Riley

    Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope for Struggling Parents

    by Bottke

    The Birth Order Book…Why You Are the Way You Are by Leman

    Traits of a Healthy Family by Curran

    FINANCIAL GUIDANCE

    The Total Money Makeover: Proven Plan for Financial Fitness by Dave Ramsey

    Dave Ramsey: The Total Money Makeover Workbook by Dave Ramsey

    Dave Ramsey’s Complete Guide to Money by Dave Ramsey

    Smart Money, Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money by Dave

    Ramsey and Rachel Cruze

    The Financial Peace Planner: A Step-by-Step Guide to Restoring Your Family’s

    Financial Health by Dave Ramsey

    GRIEF & LOSS

    Beyond Grief…A Guide for Recovery from the Death of a Loved One by Staudacher

    How to Survive the Loss of a Love by Calgrove, Floomfield, McWilliams

    Talking about Death…A Dialogue between Parent and Child (children’s book) by

    Grollman

    he Courage to Grieve by Tatelbaum

    Why Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner

    LGBTQA

    For Lesbian Parents…Your Guide to Helping Your Family Grow Up Happy, Healthy, and

    Proud by Johnson and O’Connor

    How to Make the World a Better Place for Gays and Lesbians by Fahy

    The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals by Brill& Pepper

    My Child is Transgender by Kailey

    Trading Places: When Our Son Became a Daughter by Baker

    PARENTING & STEPPARENTING

    -2-3 Magic—Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 (book/video) by Phelan

    1-2-3 Magic—Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 Workbook by Phelan

    -2-3-Magic—Surviving Your Adolescents (book/video) by Phelan

    7 Steps to Bonding with Your Stepchild by ziegahn

    Changing Children’s Behavior by Changing the People, Places, and Activities in Their

    Lives by Munger

    Children the Challenge by Driekurs

    Coping with Children’s Misbehavior by Dreikurs

    Divorced but Still My Parents (children’s book) by Thomas & Rankin

    Good Behavior by Garber, Garber, and Spizman

    How to Deal with Your Acting Up Teenager by bayard & Bayard

    How to Develop Your Child’s Gifts and Talents During the Elementary Years by Rein

    How to Talk So Kids Wills Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk (book or audiobook)

    by Faber & Mazlish

    How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk (book or audiobook)

    by Faber & Mazlish

    f the Buddha Had Kids—Raising Children to Create a More Peaceful World by Kasl

    Nurture by Nature by Tieger & Baron-Tieger

    Parenting the Strong-Willed Child by Forehand & Long

    Parenting with Love and Logic…Teaching Children Responsibility (book/video) by Cline & Fay

    Parenting Teens with Love and Logic (book/video) by Cline & Fay

    Parenting Without Pressure (Love & Logic) by Langston

    Parents Teens and Boundaries… How to Draw the Line by Bluestein

    Questions Kids Ask about Sex…Honest Answers for Every Age by The Medical Institute

    for Sexual Health

    Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by Gottman

    Reclaiming Hope: Overcoming the Challenges of Parenting Foster and Adopted

    Children by Marcy Pusey

    The Smart Stepfamily: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family by Deal

    The Smart Stepfamily Marriage: Keys to Success in the Blended Family by Deal

    The Smart Stepdad by Deal

    The Smart Stepmom by Deal

    There Are No Simple Rules for Dating My Daughter! By Buddenberg & McGee

    Try and Make Me…Simple Strategies that Turn Off the Tantrums and Create

    Cooperation by Levy & O’Hanlon

    Unlocking Your Child’s Learning Potential (Love & Logic) by Fuller

    POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER

    The Battered Woman’s Survival Guide: Breaking the Cycle by Statman

    The Courage to Heal (victim of sexual abuse) by Bass & Davis

    The Courage to Heal Workbook by Davis

    Close to Home: A Soldier’s Guide to Returning from War by Reque-Dragicevic

    Healing the Trauma of Abuse: A Women’s Workbook by Copeland

    Male Survivors: 12-Step Recovery Program for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse

    by Sanders

    Post Traumatic Stress Disorder…The Victim’s Guide to Healing and Recovery by

    Flannery

    RELATIONSHIPS & MARRIAGE

    The 5 Love Languages—The Secret of Love that Lasts by Chapman

    10 Lessons to transform Your Marriage by Gottman & Gottman

    After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been

    Unfaithful by Abrahms

    Alone Together…Making an Asperger Marriage Work by Bentley

    The Complete Idiot’s Guide to a Healthy Relationship by Kuriansky

    Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You? Jordan & Paul

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Couples: Ways to Be More Intimate, Loving, and

    Stress-free in Your relationship by Carlson

    Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff in Love (intimate relationships) by Carlson & Carlson

    Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy for Dummies by Bradley and Furrow

    The Four Seasons of Marriage by Chapman

    Getting the Love You Want by Hendrix

    His Needs, Her Needs… Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Harley

    Hold Me Tight by Johnson

    “ I Love You But I Don’t Trust You”…The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship by Kirshenbaum

    f the Buddha dated—A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path by Kasl

    If the Buddha Married—Creating Enduring Relationships on a Spiritual Path by Kasl

    If the Buddha Were in Love—The Spiritual Guide to Love and Intimacy by Kasl

    Is It You, Me, or Adult ADD? Stopping the Roller Coaster When Someone you Love Has Attention Deficit Disorder by Pera

    Not “Just Friends”…Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by

    Glass

    The Relationship Cure: A 5-Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and

    Friendships by Gottman

    Relationship Rescue… a Seven-Step Strategy for Reconnecting with Your Partner by

    Mcgraw (Dr. Phil)

    The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s

    Foremost Expert by Gottman & Silver

    he Worth of a Man (Christian) by Dravecky

    RELAXATION & STRESS REDUCTION

    The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World by Dalai Lama

    Gentle Yoga: 7 Beginning Yoga Practices for Mid-Life (40’s – 70’s) including AM

    Energy, PM Relaxation, Improving Balance, Relief from Desk Work, Core Strength,

    and more (DVD)

    Guided Mindfulness Meditation Series 1: A Complete Guided Mindfulness Meditation Program (audio CD) by Jon Kabat-Zinn

    Practicing Mindfulness: 75 Essential Meditations to Reduce Stress, Improve Mental

    Health and Find Peace in the Everyday by Sockolov

    The Little Book of Mindfulness: 10 Minutes a Day to Less Stress, More Peace by

    Collard

    The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook by McKay, Davis, Robbins, &

    Eshelman

    The Stress Management Book by Adamson

    Teen Yoga… A Complete Yoga Program for Teen Health, Strength, and (DVD)

    Yoga Boost… Beginners Yoga System for Men and Women Who Don’t Normally Do

    Yoga… Build Muscles, Lose Weight, Sooth Sore Muscles, and Relieve Stress (DVD)

    SPECIAL CHALLENGES FOR PARENTS

    A Parent’s Guide to Autism—Answers to the Most Common Questions by Hart

    ADHD: A Complete and Authoritative Guide by The American Academy of Pediatrics

    All Cats Have Asperger’s Syndrome (children’s book) by Hoopmann

    All Dogs Have ADHD (children’s book) by Hoopmann

    Call Me Anna (bipolar disorder) by Patty Duke

    Can this Child Be Saved? Solutions for Adoptive and Foster Families by Cline

    Children with Mental Retardation—A Parent’s Guide by Smith

    Eating Disorder—A Real Life Story of 3 Broken Hearts Going through Anorexia,

    Bulemia, Drugs, and So Much More… by Costa

    Helping the Child Who Doesn’t Fit In by Nowicki & Duke

    Inside Asperger’s Looking Out (children’s book) by Hoopmann

    Parenting Your Asperger’s Child—Individualized Solutions for Teaching Your Child—

    Practical Skills by Sohn & Grayson

    Rebuilding Children’s Lives (parenting foster kids) by Baker, Burek, Herron & Mott

    Seven Steps to Help Your Child Worry Less by Goldstein, Hagar, and Brooks

    Smart Money, Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money by Dave

    Ramsey and Rachel Cruze

    Raising a Moody Child by Fristad & Arnold

    The Ups and Downs of Raising a Bipolar Child—A Survival Guide for Parents by

    Lederman & Fink

    There’s a Boy in There (about autism) by Beron & Berron

    When Love Is Not Enough: A Guide to Parenting Children with RAD—Reactive

    Attachment Disorder by Thomas

    WEIGHT MANAGEMENT AND NUTRITION

    A Simple Guide to the Paleo AutoImmune Protocol by Laird

    Breaking Free from Compulsive Eating by Roth

    Eat to Live: The Amazing Nutrient-Rich Program for Fast and Sustained Weight Loss

    (unabridged and abridged versions) by Fuhrman

    Eat to Live Cookbook: 200 Delicious Nutrient-Rich Recipes for Fast and Sustained

    Weight Loss Reversing Disease by Fuhrman

    Feeding the Hungry Heart by Roth

    Gentle Yoga: 7 Beginning Yoga Practices for Mid-Life (40’s – 70’s) including AM

    Energy, PM Relaxation, Improving Balance, Relief from Desk Work, Core Strength,

    and more (DVD)

    Guided Mindfulness Meditation Series 1: A Complete Guided Mindfulness Meditation Program (audio CD) by Jon Kabat-Zinn

    The End of Diabetes: The Eat to Live Plan to Prevent and Reverse Diabetes by Fuhrman

    Hypnotic Gastric Band by Paul McKenna

    Inflammation Erased: Naturally Fight & Reverse Damaging Inflammatory Effects in Your Body by Patterson

    The Mindful Eating Workbook: Simple Mindfulness Practices to Nurture a Healthy

    Relationship with Food by Tsui

    Nutrition Handbook & ANDI Food Scoring Guide by Joel Fuhrman

    Super Immunity: The Essential Nutrition Guide for Boosting Your Body’s Defenses to

    Live Longer, Stronger, and… by Joel Fuhrman

    Your Personal Paleo Code—The 3-Step Plan to Lose Weight, Reverse Disease, and Stay

    Fit and Healthy for Life by Kresser

    Why Weight? A Guide to Ending Compulsive Eating (workbook) by Roth